Guys: do you prefer to say i love you first?
For a little over a week now, I’ve been so tempted to tell my boyfriend that I love him, but I just don’t want to intimidate him, I guess would be the right word.
It’s not like I would just be saying it without thinking that he possibly feels the same way. He’s not used the words ‘I love you’, But he’ll say other things that give me the feeling like he does love me but maybe he is hesitant to say it. Maybe he’s waiting for me to say it first.
He’ll go on and on talking about all the qualities he admires about me, saying how he just wants me to be happy and wants to protect me, etc.
Should I go ahead and tell him that I love him, or do you think it might creep them out or intimidate him? Do you guys prefer to say it first?
- PatriciaLv 72 months agoFavorite Answer
No, you shouldn't. Just wait for him. I'm sure he already knows you love him. I think most guys need to be the aggressor when it comes to this.
- LoonaseeLv 42 months ago
So many things in this life to worry about....this should not be one of them.
There's no rush, when the moment is right, you will know.