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Why do I like men (same sex)?

I don’t understand it. I have feelings and interests in other men, and most of the time I can’t talk with them about it. I have to keep silent and not let them know. But anyway, I’ve tried so hard to wish and pray that I’m straight instead. I don’t think it’s normal and I’ve cried and struggled over wondering why I am this way and why I won’t stop. If any of these men found out, I’d imagined I would be ridiculed or punched in the face. I don’t blame them. 

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  • 2 months ago

    You are gay.

    It is normal.If you come out you will not be punched in the face.

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  • 2 months ago

    Because crazy..

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  • 2 months ago

    You need to get to the point where you accept yourself. It's like a lightning strike or a random happening.

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  • reme_1
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    2 months ago

    All the praying in the world is not going to change you from being gay to straight.

    Call the gay center and talk to the counselor. Meet other gay guys your age. Share your experiences. It will help you accept yourself. Do not let anyone tell you that there is something wrong with you.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Being gay or straight is just how you are. It is not good or bad, its just a trait like your hair color or height. Network with other lgbt through things like the local gay community center, local lgbt groups and charities and read some coming out stories and see some videos about the stonewall riots. 

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    You are who you are and the problem is not you being gay it's how you feel about being gay. Probably because you are a weak person with no abstract reasoning skills lacking depth so you must try to fit in with the status quo relying on mainstream opinion shape your life.

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