Am I wrong in this fight?
I had an argument with my boyfriend yesterday about how he keeps mentioning his past sex life to me. He's done it more than once and yesterday was when I told him that it doesn't just bother me, it hurts my feelings. He told me that it was weird how triggered I was and I told him I wasn't in the mood to talk and left. I decided to ignore the fight because I was not in the mood for further arguing today. However, today I asked him if he could stop watching porn as it upset me. We have sex on a daily basis and him watching porn makes me feel like i'm not enough for him. He told me I should just accept him the way he is and I told him that if he couldn't even listen to why it upset me, maybe I should leave him. He said if I want to leave over something so small that I should probably just go and he left. I called him 2 hours later to tell him it really hurt me what he did the past two days. He said he doesn't want to speak anymore. Do I need to apologise and just accept it that men watch porn or do I need to let him go?
- TealLv 72 months agoFavorite Answer
You are insecure. He could give up porn and pretend you are the only woman who has ever existed, and you would still be insecure. You are the only one who can decide when you are ready to be vulnerable and trust someone. But he has given you very little reason to take that risk for his sake. He can't go nuclear and threaten a break up whenever you displease him or he wants his own way. This is manipulative and it isn't how someone who cares for you behaves. End it for good and move on.
- LemonadegirlLv 52 months ago
He seems insensitive like he doesnt care about your feelings. He rather disconnected. You need to leave him and find a man that cares.