• Husband said adult children (college age) should have to provide own transportation for vacation. What do you think?

    My husband and I have 4 kids - two in college (boys, 21, 19) and two in elementary school (age 8). We obviously had the first two young...then, years later, found out we were having twins (boy and girl!). Here is my question: My daughter recently asked about going to Disney. Obviously that trip will take... show more
    My husband and I have 4 kids - two in college (boys, 21, 19) and two in elementary school (age 8). We obviously had the first two young...then, years later, found out we were having twins (boy and girl!). Here is my question: My daughter recently asked about going to Disney. Obviously that trip will take financial planning. My husband is looking into it and said he will not pay our two older sons' way. I was upset at him for suggesting we'd go without our older boys. He said we took the older boys there twice when they were younger. And that they are at an age where Disney isn't the same as it is for a younger kid. After discussing it, he said they stay with us and we'll pay for their Disney ticket. But they're on their own airfare/transportation. I'd be upset if my parents told me that if my siblings were going. Before I even think about bringing this up to our older boys, do you think my husband is being unfair?
    23 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Was I wrong for telling my husband that our in home babysitter who's my cousin informed me that she cleaned up his urine off the floor?

    Best answer: Your husband is a very controlling and insecure man. I am sure he flies of the leash for other things...
    Best answer: Your husband is a very controlling and insecure man. I am sure he flies of the leash for other things...
    7 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 13 hours ago
  • I snooped in my boyfriend's room while he was in the shower and found 2 open condom wrappers. What do I do?

    I was over my boyfriend's house the other night and lately I have been feeling like he has been acting funny towards me and kind of distant so while he was in the shower I decided to snoop. I know this is wrong but I did it anyways. I opened his drawer of his nightstand and inside were 2 opened condom wrappers... show more
    I was over my boyfriend's house the other night and lately I have been feeling like he has been acting funny towards me and kind of distant so while he was in the shower I decided to snoop. I know this is wrong but I did it anyways. I opened his drawer of his nightstand and inside were 2 opened condom wrappers and 1 unopened one. We haven't used condoms in 2 years....I didn't say anything because I know it was my own fault for being nosey but I can't stop thinking about it now and I don't know what to do. I know if I bring it up he will just flip it on me and yell at me for being nosey. I just can't get the idea of him sleeping with someone else out of my head and I'm really sad about it. I love him but I don't deserve that. What should I do?
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • How can I just straight up ask on of these guys to have sex with me?

    Call me a slut, I don't care, but I've been feeling really horny lately. My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and I haven't had sex since then. Masturbating doesn't help anymore. There's this group of pretty awkward, nerdy guys I know. I have heard them talking about how hot they think I... show more
    Call me a slut, I don't care, but I've been feeling really horny lately. My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and I haven't had sex since then. Masturbating doesn't help anymore. There's this group of pretty awkward, nerdy guys I know. I have heard them talking about how hot they think I am, so I know at least one of them would want to have sex with me. They are all nice virgin guys too, so they would probably be considerate to me in bed. How can I just ask one of them for sex? I don't want to seem like a hooker or something, I just want to know how to lead on that I would have sex with one of them if they asked me?
    91 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • How many sexual partners should a guy at least have by the age of 30?

    as in not be looked down as less of a man?
    as in not be looked down as less of a man?
    132 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • What should I do about my daughter?

    My daughter is 19 years old. She’s a freshman in community college, which I pay for. I pay her car insurance ($2,000/yr), car repairs (thousands of dollars over two years), and she lives here rent free. I also buy all her food and toiletries. She’s in school about 9 hours a week over three days. I don’t think she... show more
    My daughter is 19 years old. She’s a freshman in community college, which I pay for. I pay her car insurance ($2,000/yr), car repairs (thousands of dollars over two years), and she lives here rent free. I also buy all her food and toiletries. She’s in school about 9 hours a week over three days. I don’t think she has much homework. She has a job where she works 2-3 days a week for about 10-12 hours on average for the week. She only pays for her gas and for clothes. Should I continue doing this? She always says she’s so busy but she spends more time with her boyfriend than she does at school or work and sometimes getting her to do chores around the house becomes a chore for me.
    89 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • My Gf wants to see me naked im 14?

    Best answer: If you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't do it and let her know. She needs to respect your decision on this. Should she still insist, that's obviously not respecting your own wishes or you at all.
    Best answer: If you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't do it and let her know. She needs to respect your decision on this. Should she still insist, that's obviously not respecting your own wishes or you at all.
    28 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Would a guy be okay with dating a kinky virgin or is that weird?

    I am a 23 yr old female and still a virgin. I've always been very shy and grew up reserved. But Secretly I am very kinky. I've had some bdsm experiences and love it. But I've never gotten around to having sex with a man. It's so embarrassing when guys find out and they are turned off from my virgin... show more
    I am a 23 yr old female and still a virgin. I've always been very shy and grew up reserved. But Secretly I am very kinky. I've had some bdsm experiences and love it. But I've never gotten around to having sex with a man. It's so embarrassing when guys find out and they are turned off from my virgin status. They think that because I am a virgin, I am too innocent and taking my virginity would be stressful. I like spanking and submission and a whole bunch of other things. Do I have a chance with a guy? I think I am pretty, its just I don't talk to a lot of guys. I don't know what to do. I don't want guys to think I'm weird for being a virgin, or a freak because of my fetishes. I don't want to be a virgin for another few years. But I am very shy when talking to guys I'm interested in. Any advice?
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • My friends are excluding me?

    My friends have been excluding me from group partys and such. I don't know what to do and I can't talk to them, I'm afraid they have more reason to hate me. A couple of them have also been making up things and telling people behind my back. All I want to do right now is be with my friends but I can't. show more
    My friends have been excluding me from group partys and such. I don't know what to do and I can't talk to them, I'm afraid they have more reason to hate me. A couple of them have also been making up things and telling people behind my back. All I want to do right now is be with my friends but I can't.
    14 answers · Friends · 15 hours ago
  • My parents are away on holiday, do you think my older sister is being cruel and mean for not getting me out of a school punishment ?

    my parents are on holiday and my older sister is in charge she is 23, she is a secondary teacher ( NOT AT MY SCHOOL ) on Monday I had an after school detention for bad behavouir it lasts for 1 hour 45 minutes, my friends were going bowling so I skipped it ( DETENTION IS FOR LOSERS ) the problem is it states that... show more
    my parents are on holiday and my older sister is in charge she is 23, she is a secondary teacher ( NOT AT MY SCHOOL ) on Monday I had an after school detention for bad behavouir it lasts for 1 hour 45 minutes, my friends were going bowling so I skipped it ( DETENTION IS FOR LOSERS ) the problem is it states that any student missing a detention will go straight into a FULL Saturday detention. today the headmaster gave me my timetable for Saturday detention it is HORRIBLE. 845am registration and FULL school uniform inspection, 9am-- 12 am punishment essays 12 am-- 1pm lunch we have to bring in a packed lunch, we can go into the playground if we want, 1pm-- 3pm copy out punishment essays 3pm--315pm break, 315--5pm write an essay on what we have learned from Saturday detention, 5pm --515pm tidy classroom hand in punishment essays, go home. it states quite clearly that the only way a student can get Saturday detention postphoned is in an emergency and guardian signs a letter saying they have a wedding or doctors etc. tomorrow is my friends 16th party and I am invited it is at a TOP theme park, MY QUESTION, I asked my sister to lie and sign the letter so I could get out of punishment, she said NO WAY I have broken the rules and MUST be punished, I think she is mean and cruel what do you think ?
    11 answers · Family · 10 hours ago
  • If your neighbor was beating his wife, would you get involved?

    If you heard your neighbor's wife screaming and crying as her husband jumped on her, calling her all types of obscenities, and striking her with his belt, would you get involved?
    If you heard your neighbor's wife screaming and crying as her husband jumped on her, calling her all types of obscenities, and striking her with his belt, would you get involved?
    28 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • Should I break up with my boyfriend? Is this considered cheating?

    I walked in on my boyfriend and his best friend making out on the bed with only boxers on. When I saw them I was so shocked, I walked out the house and my boyfriend tried to talk to me as I was storming out. He was saying that they only were experimenting and it was just for fun. I don't know, because if it was... show more
    I walked in on my boyfriend and his best friend making out on the bed with only boxers on. When I saw them I was so shocked, I walked out the house and my boyfriend tried to talk to me as I was storming out. He was saying that they only were experimenting and it was just for fun. I don't know, because if it was a girl I would be WAY MORE MAD because he's never said he was bi/gay or anything other than straight. So idk if their experiment is cheating or they were actually having some kind of low key affair . Also, the friend he was kissing has a girlfriend too, so idk if I should inform her. I'm so conflicted. I've told my boyfriend I need some time to think about it and I'm staying with my friend at the moment. Should I ask him if he has feelings for his friend? or believe what he is saying... do guys randomly make out with each other for fun when they are not drunk or at a party? like it was just just them two alone and it was like an hour after they finish their work. :/ HELP ME
    24 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Is 18 to young to be married?

    Best answer: No I married at 16 41 years ago still incredibly happy and satisfied with my guy
    Best answer: No I married at 16 41 years ago still incredibly happy and satisfied with my guy
    26 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • Is it weird that my girlfriend refuses to give me head?

    Best answer: Thats ok. You can get head from lots of other people.
    Best answer: Thats ok. You can get head from lots of other people.
    20 answers · Singles & Dating · 14 hours ago