• My boyfriend was found on a dating site. What now ?

    Long story short: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. We've had ALOT of ups and down in a short amount of time. The past few months have been a lot better and we are learning to compromise in ways I never thought possible. We've learned to grow. He's always been quite jealous,... show more
    Long story short: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. We've had ALOT of ups and down in a short amount of time. The past few months have been a lot better and we are learning to compromise in ways I never thought possible. We've learned to grow. He's always been quite jealous, doesn't like the idea of guy friends and got really upset I got on a dating site when we broke up for a month. All seems reasonable if that's who he is. I have never cheated or lied but I have put him through a good amount of drama myself. Im working on personal growth. But I just found out through a friend he was on a dating site of his own. We got into an fight and didnt speak for about three days, apparently at that time he was on the Site and messaged a friend of mine. He did not know she knew me. He made small talk and asked her to add him on Instagram. She did. Later on he got onto my Instagram secretly and personally blocked her so she couldn't message me. A week later I confronted him and he said he was feeling low and was ashamed and didnt want any more drama once we worked things out and deleted his site. We've had so much drama a part of my once to let this go but another part feels like its cheating. No matter what I've done I dont think its fair. So I dont know what to do.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 15 hours ago
  • Bf threatened me for poking him?

    Best answer: Hi, Personally you have to bare in mind hes autistic and processes thoughts differently which you obviously do and well it seems, you know you mentioned opening up about your ex to him did you say he would do these things to your hands? which would give him the idea to say that out of spite? or did you just say it... show more
    Best answer: Hi,
    Personally you have to bare in mind hes autistic and processes thoughts differently which you obviously do and well it seems, you know you mentioned opening up about your ex to him did you say he would do these things to your hands? which would give him the idea to say that out of spite? or did you just say it briefly like he was abusive and no more, because if he generally didnt have a clue about the extent of your ex's actions then i would say this is just a mis-understanding and you shouldn't dwell on it too much and forget for now,

    But if he did on the other hand know about the details then maybe you should lay off the poking for a while and try to remove the tention from the air if he's still annoyed and moody then talk to him privately
    and god forbid but if hes threatning or worse trys to take action then get away for a while and rethink your relationship.

    Hope i helped, hope it works out take care :)
    15 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Do you believe in love?

    248 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • 21 Year Old Virgin 😑?

    Is it pathetic to be a 21 year old girl that's a virgin? I don't know what I'm doing wrong that's caused it not to happen yet. I also keep having crazy sex fantasies which doesn't help.
    Is it pathetic to be a 21 year old girl that's a virgin? I don't know what I'm doing wrong that's caused it not to happen yet. I also keep having crazy sex fantasies which doesn't help.
    43 answers · Singles & Dating · 16 hours ago
  • Do you think it would be weird for a 24 year old male to date/have sex with a 35 year old female?

    Best answer: When you are a child, age matters. Once you become a full grown adult, regardless of age, you are all equal; yes, with different experiences, but equally capable, with enough intellect to make good or bad decisions. You can choose to think that a 60 year old will know better than you because you are 21 but in... show more
    Best answer: When you are a child, age matters. Once you become a full grown adult, regardless of age, you are all equal; yes, with different experiences, but equally capable, with enough intellect to make good or bad decisions. You can choose to think that a 60 year old will know better than you because you are 21 but in reality you both are equal intelectualy. (Unless one of you are mentally handicapped)
    Some full grown adults have the impression that they are less intelligent than people older than they are, this is because they enjoy having a bit of a "victim personality". Having a victim personality slows you down, low achievers and unhappy people like adopting the victim personality. It gives them a false sense of security. It's pathetic. Just pathetic.
    74 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • GUYS: Is it a turn off if the girl you're dating has been with a lot of men?

    And is it a turn off if she is willing to have sex with you early in the relationship and doesn't wait for a couple of months before you do the deed?
    And is it a turn off if she is willing to have sex with you early in the relationship and doesn't wait for a couple of months before you do the deed?
    76 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • What would be your reaction if texting and social media were killed off and people started socializing in person again?

    I know that this likely won't happen at the rate that society is going at the moment, but what if it did? How would you react?
    I know that this likely won't happen at the rate that society is going at the moment, but what if it did? How would you react?
    18 answers · Friends · 8 hours ago
  • Should you quit doing something if it makes your spouse uncomfortable?

    Shouldn't your spouse just trust you? Sometimes a male friend of mine downloads on me about his relationship problems and gives me compliments and will text late at night. My husband says its inappropriate and makes him uncomfortable. But shouldn't my husband just trust me and let it go?
    Shouldn't your spouse just trust you? Sometimes a male friend of mine downloads on me about his relationship problems and gives me compliments and will text late at night. My husband says its inappropriate and makes him uncomfortable. But shouldn't my husband just trust me and let it go?
    34 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 22 hours ago
  • Could the man I am dating start to become violent and/or controlling?

    I, 38, am dating a man, 47. We have been dating 3 months. We have also had sex a few times. In one incident, there was something I didn't want to do and he told me I need to stop making rules and restrictions. He said it in a very serious, firm tone. And this past time, there was something he wanted me to do,... show more
    I, 38, am dating a man, 47. We have been dating 3 months. We have also had sex a few times. In one incident, there was something I didn't want to do and he told me I need to stop making rules and restrictions. He said it in a very serious, firm tone. And this past time, there was something he wanted me to do, and I told him I didn't want to. He then said shutup to me. A little bit of me thought I was being too uptight, but then more of me felt disrespected and a little scared. Should I call it off with this guy?
    20 answers · Singles & Dating · 21 hours ago
  • My wife takes all my money and not let me use it.and she also not using her money, i want to use at least 25 percent of my salary,?

    My salary is nearly about 4000 dollar and hers too, I know we have to save money in life, but i have to live my life too,I love gadgets , i don't want to live Life like this, but after all she is my wife, i don't want to let her go, i try to explain her but she is not listening to me, and always listening... show more
    My salary is nearly about 4000 dollar and hers too, I know we have to save money in life, but i have to live my life too,I love gadgets , i don't want to live Life like this, but after all she is my wife, i don't want to let her go, i try to explain her but she is not listening to me, and always listening to her dad, and her dad says to her don't spend money save it, its useless to ask her dad about my problem cause Her dad's answer is "Take Divorce" at any point, what should i do ?
    15 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 18 hours ago
  • My parents won't let me go outside they say that it's "too dangerous" and no one my age should go out without an adult (I'm 14..)?

    they say it's because of a kid my age was killed.. but they were really far away from us.. if I ask my mom to go to the park ( which is a one minute walk from my house ) she will yell at me. I want more freedom but I don't know what to do..
    they say it's because of a kid my age was killed.. but they were really far away from us.. if I ask my mom to go to the park ( which is a one minute walk from my house ) she will yell at me. I want more freedom but I don't know what to do..
    28 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • My Pastor had sex with me :(?

    The worst thing happened to me. Long story short... I started attending a new church, I liked it it was great. About 1 month in I get an invite by my pastor to his house. He wanted to talk more and etc and I promise you all that is what I thought. So I went and then he started touching and kissing me. I said no,... show more
    The worst thing happened to me. Long story short... I started attending a new church, I liked it it was great. About 1 month in I get an invite by my pastor to his house. He wanted to talk more and etc and I promise you all that is what I thought. So I went and then he started touching and kissing me. I said no, grabbed my pants and said no. He was telling me to stop. And act like an adult. He was over me and you already know what happened. I am disgusted. Grossed out. Angry. Upset. It s my fault cause I really thought it was just gonna be to talk. When I was leaving he was telling me that he wanted a baby with me. And I said no. Stop. He kept telling me he wants one and what if I got pregnant and kept saying that I will be. I m just so upset and angry and I don t know what to feel or do. Am I wrong? Am I stupid? Be honest everyone. Thanks! Xoxo
    26 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 22 hours ago
  • Do I return the ring after an ended engagemnt or do I sell it?

    My fiancé broke off our engagement about two months ago, but we decided to keep dating because we loved each other he just wasn’t ready to get married. That turned out to be a load of crap because now here was are and I had to break up with him because he was acting like a child and treating me like I was his last... show more
    My fiancé broke off our engagement about two months ago, but we decided to keep dating because we loved each other he just wasn’t ready to get married. That turned out to be a load of crap because now here was are and I had to break up with him because he was acting like a child and treating me like I was his last priority. No wonder he wasn’t ready to get married, turns out he’s fifteen at heart. Anyways, pent up anger aside, he asked for the ring back but he was unemployed for the last four months of our relationship so I paid for everything for him and now I can’t pay my tuition payment that is due next month. I’m selling the wedding dress I bought but it still isn’t enough. I want to sell the ring. My argument is that he gave it to me so it’s mine to sell, and he argues that he went into debt to buy the ring so he should be able to sell it to pay it off. Thoughts? How do I nicely tell him if I’m not giving it back?
    49 answers · Weddings · 3 days ago