• I'm in an emotion-less relationship with my wife and I haven't the slightest clue how to fix it. It's been this way forever. Help?

    My wife and I have the deepest regard for each other's well being. I dont know if that counts as love, but this is what we have to offer each other. It actually feels like this has always been this way, we dated for 2 months before she moved in with me and we started a family together, so our emotional... show more
    My wife and I have the deepest regard for each other's well being. I dont know if that counts as love, but this is what we have to offer each other. It actually feels like this has always been this way, we dated for 2 months before she moved in with me and we started a family together, so our emotional attachment and honeymoon phase wasn't very long before we were hit with adulthood responsibilities due to bills and children. Our oldest is now 15, but the emotional distance is still there. Now, before you jump right into divorce advice, know that my son has been formally diagnosed with an autistic spectrum disorder. And Autism has a tendency to run in families so either me or my wife (of both) have it too. I wanted to mention this because emotional distance and lack of empathy happen to be trademark symptoms of the disorder. I don't think I have it because my whole life has been about caring about other people's feelings mlre than my own, which has to definitely mean that if I'm touched with it then it isn't through empathy or theory of mind... My wife though has never had empathy for me except objectively - she knows X happened so when X happens Y and Z happen so to avoid Y and Z she should do B and J. But that's all compensation as a result of behaviorism, cause and effecf. My question is this, what movies, shows, books, songs, activities, or even discussions can my wife and I have to have a hormonal and emotional relationship instead of a logical and technical marriage?
    7 answers · Psychology · 2 days ago
  • Where are you from?

    225 answers · Anthropology · 3 days ago
  • Can I meet a nice girl in prison?

    Apparently you can date and/or marry someone while they are prison. I was thinking of trying my luck with one of those lonely prisoner websites since no girl seems to go for me in the free world..
    Apparently you can date and/or marry someone while they are prison. I was thinking of trying my luck with one of those lonely prisoner websites since no girl seems to go for me in the free world..
    53 answers · Other - Social Science · 3 days ago
  • Is melania Trump a good feminist role model?

    She is a housewife and has an important career . Caring about an important man's well being and family is a much more important career than being an affirmative action engineer who does more damage than good. She benefits society much more than any female affirmative-action scientist
    She is a housewife and has an important career . Caring about an important man's well being and family is a much more important career than being an affirmative action engineer who does more damage than good. She benefits society much more than any female affirmative-action scientist
    17 answers · Gender Studies · 16 hours ago
  • Is there a name for the behavior in a relationship where one person forces most to all the people out of the other persons life?

    Best answer: Malignant narcissist; sociopath; abuser
    Best answer: Malignant narcissist; sociopath; abuser
    17 answers · Psychology · 2 days ago
  • Are the English mongrels?

    Are the English mongrels?

    Best answer: Here's one of many visualisations that show there is very little that can be defined as English genetically.

    But you know "We do not look even remotely Germanic. We are clearly aesthetically above them as well."

    He said in a language principally comprised of Germanic etymology.
    Best answer: Here's one of many visualisations that show there is very little that can be defined as English genetically.

    But you know "We do not look even remotely Germanic. We are clearly aesthetically above them as well."

    He said in a language principally comprised of Germanic etymology.
    9 answers · Anthropology · 17 hours ago
  • Is Adam a gender neutral name?

    This kid in my class keeps saying it's gender neutral...
    This kid in my class keeps saying it's gender neutral...
    21 answers · Gender Studies · 24 hours ago
  • How do rapists leave no trace?

    I was reading the news and rape showed up, I asked myself how do rapists get away with it. I feel like that much body contact would leave some tracer, either pubic hair, or fingers, they should've at least left something
    I was reading the news and rape showed up, I asked myself how do rapists get away with it. I feel like that much body contact would leave some tracer, either pubic hair, or fingers, they should've at least left something
    6 answers · Gender Studies · 10 hours ago
  • Why don't advocates for prostitution realize this?

    Best answer: That's because prostitution is illegal. Prostitutes avoid medical exams and stay in the shadows because it's illegal. Pimps are criminals because it's illegal. It's similar to alcohol selling when it was illegal. If prostitution becomes legal then escorts will be protected by the law, there will be... show more
    Best answer: That's because prostitution is illegal. Prostitutes avoid medical exams and stay in the shadows because it's illegal. Pimps are criminals because it's illegal. It's similar to alcohol selling when it was illegal. If prostitution becomes legal then escorts will be protected by the law, there will be no more pimps and they will be required to have medical exams. They will even pay taxes.
    11 answers · Gender Studies · 1 day ago
  • How do I subliminally, stop smelling like misery, despair and failure?

    Best answer: Human beings are ruled by spirits but humans must learn to control and rule the spirits. Spirits possess people according to the mental state of the human beings and keep them in the same state until they are rejected and replaced by another. This is an all time phenomena occurring in all humans. Human beings are... show more
    Best answer: Human beings are ruled by spirits but humans must learn to control and rule the spirits. Spirits possess people according to the mental state of the human beings and keep them in the same state until they are rejected and replaced by another. This is an all time phenomena occurring in all humans. Human beings are always under the influence of spirits. Certain situations and circumstances causes the possession of certain type of spirits. Often thinking and talking about bad subjects or bad imaginations even for fun can take serious turns on one who think and talk. All spirits (good and bad) have the dominating character. They can take you to the extent of sacrifice or suicide.

    All of your activities, talks and even thoughts determine what kind of spirits you will have for your life. Only these spirits are the reason for the good and bad happening in your life. Generally spirits determine your destiny from your daily activities, talks and thoughts too. All knowledge, skills, emotions, feelings, interests and everything are spirits. Even thoughts are not your own. For example, when you want to take a decision on a subject, one after another they think and you just listen and choose or reject the ideas which they transmit to your mind through your brain in the form of thoughts. A human being during his/her lifetime is living with many spirits which have joined one by one since birth. All human beings are just unprogrammed robots made of flesh, bones, tissues etc., by birth and toys of the spirits for their games.

    You must not leave your mind in it's own way. If you do, the spirit will take your mind for it's own, then controlling it is not so easy. First of all you must think and believe that it's not you. Then you must command that spirit both mentally and orally to go. Whenever you are possessed by that thought you must divert your mind at once towards some other subject and stay in it for a while and then continue your duty. This is a mental exercise. You may also bring at once an opposite feeling through your imagination as if you are going to live a healthy, wealthy, happy and victorious life in future. You must continue this exercise for few days. While doing this exercise you are creating an opposing spirit, i.e., a positive force. Soon this new spirit gets stronger and eliminates the negative force. Within a few days you will be alright.
    19 answers · Psychology · 3 days ago