• Why am I so nice?

    Yes, I know this sounds weird, but hear me out. I have an extreme social anxiety disorder and suffer from other mental disorders. I've been treated like crap from people and still am. Yet for some reason, my natural instinct is to be incredibly nice to people. I've been able to talk to famous people, the... show more
    Yes, I know this sounds weird, but hear me out. I have an extreme social anxiety disorder and suffer from other mental disorders. I've been treated like crap from people and still am. Yet for some reason, my natural instinct is to be incredibly nice to people. I've been able to talk to famous people, the "mean" girls in school, etc... all because of that. If someone doesn't have a chair to sit in, i naturally get up and let them have it, even if they are horrible to me. If someone needs help with homework, i send links of a ton of resources for them to use and give them tips, even if they aren't nice and it takes me about 20 minutes to do. I just, do it. Like how you naturally breath, i naturally act this way. Does it have anything to do with your DNA or something? I mean like, in 3rd grade I literally spent my entire lunch and recess period helping people work out their problems because it felt so natural for me to do. I just don't understand. Some people are naturally mean, so what makes me naturally nice? I'm sorry if i come off as cocky, i wasn't trying to do so. I was just thinking about it recently and was naturally curious.
    65 answers · 4 days ago
  • Have you ever had deja vu?

    a feeling of having already experienced the present situation.
    a feeling of having already experienced the present situation.
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • If you were told you are Irish. But then told you aren't how do you?

    Not get upset about being or not being irish. And do you think the irish are better than others?
    Not get upset about being or not being irish. And do you think the irish are better than others?
    5 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Is being dead peacefull?

    Best answer: Yes and No. There are numerous perspectives on what death is. To discover whether death is peaceful, then, is to choose which irrespective is correct. 1. Are we dead and cease to exist? 2. Are we reincarnated? 3. Are we resurrected? 4. Do we become one with the universe? Since the Bible is... show more
    Best answer: Yes and No.
    There are numerous perspectives on what death is. To discover whether death is peaceful, then, is to choose which irrespective is correct.
    1. Are we dead and cease to exist?
    2. Are we reincarnated?
    3. Are we resurrected?
    4. Do we become one with the universe?

    Since the Bible is more historically accurate than all ancient documents combined and Christianity had more evidence than any other belief system in the world I will tell you what it says.

    In short, the Bible teaches when you die that you continue to exist.

    You will either live with God for all eternity or you will live somewhere separate from God forever apart from His love, light, and fellowship and the fellowship of all those who are with God. It will be a type of torment which to your mind and emotions will be like fire.
    if you choose to know God now while you re alive He will wipe away all tears and pain and flood you with overwhelming love, peace, and warmth living with Him!
    15 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Procrastrination is ruining my life..?

    Best answer: I have the same problem as you as well. Sometimes I would procrastinate. What helps me is I try to write in a big calendar all of the due dates, tests, assignments due. Next, I look at what it's all about. Third, I break down the tasks daily by using an agenda and making notes. Last, I remind myself if I leave... show more
    Best answer: I have the same problem as you as well. Sometimes I would procrastinate. What helps me is I try to write in a big calendar all of the due dates, tests, assignments due. Next, I look at what it's all about. Third, I break down the tasks daily by using an agenda and making notes. Last, I remind myself if I leave at last minute, I won't get a good grade, I'll be scared, I'll be tired, no way to complete all in one day or few hours (Negative consequences) and my experiences of when I did do at last minute and how I scared and pressured I was. I hope this helps
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • I Don't want a girlfriend or need a girlfriend, but everyone else pushes me to have one, and I want it to Stop?

    I'm an 18 year old, somewhat solitary person, who has neve truly had or wanted a 'loving' connection with anyone. My status vomes up in conversation (more than I think it should), and the response (at first) didn't bother me. However, the more and more people give me the same, albeit I'm sure... show more
    I'm an 18 year old, somewhat solitary person, who has neve truly had or wanted a 'loving' connection with anyone. My status vomes up in conversation (more than I think it should), and the response (at first) didn't bother me. However, the more and more people give me the same, albeit I'm sure good natured response of "You'll find one some day", the more aggravating it becomes. It's not that the particular prospect of having a partner so annoys me, but the constant, unspoken assertion that having one somehow will make me complete as a person. As a person who has spent A long time dealing with image and person issues, it has quite botherd me that at this point in my life, when I am beginning to understand who I am, everyone thinks I would be happier if I just do what they did. Again, I understand this comes from a point of good intention, but literally no amount of "I appreciate, but I'm happy" or "I just don't feel the same way, but I appreciate it" seems to stop them. I just want to be left to my own social discovery in the area, but I seem to be apparently not allowed in society to think in such a way.
    8 answers · 18 hours ago
  • What is the age range of middle-aged?

    16 answers · 3 days ago
  • What do you call someone who is very shy, reserved, and quiet to strangers byt very confident, and extroverted when around friends?

    Is that person introverted, extroverted or other (explain)?
    Is that person introverted, extroverted or other (explain)?
    13 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why am I so popular?

    Everybody wants to talk to me and I'm just like holdup I gotta talk to these 15 other people. Is this normal?
    Everybody wants to talk to me and I'm just like holdup I gotta talk to these 15 other people. Is this normal?
    6 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Im anti social is that normal?

    hi my name is rob and throughout my 30 years of life i have had problems being social with others even my family i never talked much in middle school/high school I hate going out and doing stuff problem is I just don't trust anyone anymore i would rather just sit home and work which is fine i assume im not... show more
    hi my name is rob and throughout my 30 years of life i have had problems being social with others even my family i never talked much in middle school/high school I hate going out and doing stuff problem is I just don't trust anyone anymore i would rather just sit home and work which is fine i assume im not liked very much due to my lifestyle is that normal?
    12 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is gunshot to the head the best way for suicide?

    I tried everything.... Hanging myself,choking myself and am too chicken to jump off a building and burst my head. Bullet to the head is quick and effective,no?
    I tried everything.... Hanging myself,choking myself and am too chicken to jump off a building and burst my head. Bullet to the head is quick and effective,no?
    7 answers · 24 hours ago
  • My Soul feels severely empty. Help?

    Best answer: That's the default condition - like hungry is if you don't eat. Got to nourish the soul too. Only way to do that is with human contact. It's not a luxury - it's a need, a necessity. Got to be around people and get involved, as much trouble and maintenance as that is.
    Best answer: That's the default condition - like hungry is if you don't eat. Got to nourish the soul too. Only way to do that is with human contact. It's not a luxury - it's a need, a necessity. Got to be around people and get involved, as much trouble and maintenance as that is.
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • What should I do when I'm depressed?

    6 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Is it weird that I talk to myself like this?

    Is there something wrong with me? I have full on conversations with myself and chat with myself like I. Chatting with someone else or sometimes I stand I. The mirror and pretend I'm a celebrity being interviwed and ask and answer my own questions. however I really struggle to make conversation with people... show more
    Is there something wrong with me? I have full on conversations with myself and chat with myself like I. Chatting with someone else or sometimes I stand I. The mirror and pretend I'm a celebrity being interviwed and ask and answer my own questions. however I really struggle to make conversation with people I'm not familiar with and therefor have trouble making friends because I just never know what to say. My mind is empty all the time when it comes to talking to real people. What's wrong with me
    6 answers · 17 hours ago
  • True or False: no amount of material possessions will ever make you happy?

    Best answer: Comfortable but not happy.
    Best answer: Comfortable but not happy.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • How do I deal with this?

    I am making really stupid mistakes at work because of my anxiety. How do I deal with this?
    I am making really stupid mistakes at work because of my anxiety. How do I deal with this?
    6 answers · 20 hours ago